It starts with a flicker of consciousness. One moment you’re deep in a dream, and the next, your eyes are wide open. You glance at the bedside clock. 3:07 AM. Again. You lie there, perfectly still, hoping that if you don’t move, sleep might find you again. But your mind has other plans. It’s already drafting tomorrow’s to-do list, replaying a conversation from three days ago, or wondering why the house feels so quiet yet your internal volume is turned up to max. You feel wire

You apologise for being tired. You tell yourself you should be coping better. Maybe you’ve started calling yourself lazy, or promising you’ll be more disciplined tomorrow. You’re used to being the capable one. The person who gets things done, even when life is full. But now you’re waking between 2–4am, reaching for coffee just to function, and struggling to think clearly. You might snap at someone you love, then feel guilty about that too. If this sounds familiar, I want you

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